There's nothing wrong with being alone or being single. However, the need for someone who can complement our lives must be very desirable, because the couple could be the place to share stories and love. For those of you who as yet have a couple, you are not alone. Many other women who also had spent many years to lead a romantic relationship, but a failure, even reaching the point of giving up on love.

Complaints such as "What's wrong with me?" You'll often think about. Unfortunately, you will not get a satisfactory answer. If you ask with an open mind and the spirit wants to know the truth, you can make the difference between finding love in life or choose to remain single. Yet earlier, find three reasons that cause you're still single until now.

1. Fear-related
When you think you want a partner, you may find it difficult to leave the comfort zone of being single. Some women experience their own fears when entering a serious relationship with a man. For example, fear that he will no longer be able to have fun and as freely as once when he was alone. Confusion, fear, and ambivalence in the relationship will make you live tend to prefer to stay away, and eventually lead you to believe all sorts of reasons to reject people who love you. You own the one who will rationalize your fears, such as creating a mind that he is not the right person for you. Eventually you find it easier to blame circumstances, when in fact you own the one who caused it.

2. Find someone more important than finding happiness
It is a cliche but true. Actually you can not rely on any outside yourself, to make you happy. Believe me, if you tend to be women who think negative and always see yourself as a "glass is half empty", and half should be filled by someone who becomes your couple, nothing will change when you're married to your couple.

Often you ignore the feeling when you feel comfortable and happy around someone, and instead focused on looking for the perfect figure with a variety of criteria you want. Because, as you imagine the perfect criteria is what will make you happy, and able to fill half the glass of your life. Unfortunately, the perfect figure that does not exist. When you've found the imperfections of your partner, you will soon find he is not the right couple for you. This is what often occurs and causes the failure of a love affair, which is due to you too focused in finding someone, and instead of looking for happiness.

3. You undervalue yourself
Before you are loved by others, love yourself first. The lack of appreciation on yourself will make you less confident and less attractive to others. Respect yourself so much confidence that comes up, and therefore can make other people interested in you.